Know Thy Soulmate
Part I

For the purpose of this article, you need to understand the definition of Soulmate. Your Soulmate or Soul Mate is a romantic partner - someone that you will spend time with and feel a connection to that transcends anything else you have ever experienced.

Your relationship will touch your heart and change your life. Your Soulmate is someone who has agreed to be your partner prior to ever being born! You have spent many, many lifetimes with your Soulmate building an energy bond of love that is strong and filled with ancient memories that you don't remember but still feel.

Does everyone have a Soulmate? Not everyone who is born will meet or have a romantic Soulmate in this lifetime. Whether you have a Soulmate depends on what you have chosen to accomplish during this lifetime. If your spiritual goals do not involve having a Soulmate then it would not be necessary for you to encounter him or her during this life.

However, if you have been looking for your Soulmate or believe or feel in your heart that you will someday meet your Soulmate...then chances are you will! Why is that so? If you are meant to meet your Soulmate...if your destiny is written in stone...meant to be then you will feel that energy on another level. You will know that your Soulmate is out there somewhere waiting to meet you and make you feel complete. This is why reputable Psychics can describe your relationship or the energy of your Soulmate - they can feel the energy and then describe it to you.

For example, my strongest psychic ability is being able to "go into" your Soulmate's (or other people's) energy to describe what he or she is feeling - I take on his or her feelings so to speak - and then I can describe what I feel, how I feel, general personality characteristics from the perspective of your Soulmate. It is as though I walk into your Soulmate's body for a few minutes. Then I can get results where I end up hearing back from people with responses such as the following:

"hi wendy, the reason i was so eager to get this reading, is that ever since i ve met the guy im with now, i ve had the strangest feeling of being exactly where im supposed to be, it s been 7 months now that we are getting to know each other, it is very important to him that we are friends before anything else.... after reading your reading, i m freaking out, you have in so many words described exactly how we met, the evolution of the relationship, his interests... i'm just so happy to now have the confirmation of what i think i already felt, ... now i feel i can just sit back and relax, and only enjoy the rest of my life, cause it can only be beautiful from this point on... thanks a million.... love C., Canada" (Nov. 2004)

So if you have that deep urge, that yearning to meet that special someone...relax and know that it will happen.

The person who sent in the testimonial above was lucky...she recognized her Soulmate right away. She felt the energy and knew deep in her heart that there was a very special connection between the two of them. So, will you recognize your Soulmate in the same way?

You might recognize your Soulmate right way and you might not. My friend Rose was married to a man for about 10 years and they had 3 children together. He treated her well and life was routine. Rose's neighbor had been given away when he was a child and was searching for his birth mother. He was told that his birth mother was in England so he wrote a letter to the newspaper in England, explained his story and asked for them to print it. He hoped that his mother would read it. His mother did not read it but his brother did! As a result of this, he discovered that he had 2 brothers and a mother living there. He traveled to England to be reunited with his family and when he returned to Canada, he brought one of his brothers with him.

For some reason Rose kept thinking and worrying about meeting the brother. She thought she would have a reaction to him but when she saw him from a distance she breathed a sigh of relief because she knew she would not be attracted to "the man with tattoos all over his body". They all got together that night to socialize and when she looked into this man's eyes she knew and her life changed. Within 6 months she left her husband of 10 years for this man. They are still together - instant attraction - instant recognition once the eyes met.

On the other hand, many times you can know your Soulmate for a long period of time and not recognize him or her until something happens - a touch, a word, a look - and then everything can change in the blink of an eye. If you have been hurt in relationships that have left deep scars, this method of meeting a Soulmate is often used. Building the friendship first breaks down the protection that you might have put up to keep from being hurt again.

And once you recognize your Soulmate, life will never be the same.

About the Author:

Wendy Kay, has been studying and researching the spiritual realm for over 20 years. In 1997 she founded her web site www.oralin.com which specializes in providing information for those who are just starting to explore the Spirit World, those who want to develop their psychic abilities or for those who want to expand their awareness. Her goal is to provide a community for those of you who want Higher Level Awareness so that you can reach your full potential.