How To Make Your Life Easier

I have lived most of my life in fear and denial. As part of my research, it was revealed that we all have a "time line" in which to make changes in our lives and learn our lessons. For example, you may only have two years to end a relationship that is no longer beneficial to you or you may have twenty years to learn to let go of the need to control a friend or spouse.

Through experience, I have discovered that when a person makes the change that is needed at the beginning of the time line, life is much easier. If you are making those changes towards the end of the time line then life will be much harder. Fear has prevented me from making changes at the beginning of my time line.

As the time starts running out, you get what I call "kicks in the behind". The kicks come more often and become stronger towards the end of your time line. These kicks make the lesson or change more apparent. Kicks are usually emotionally painful and are usually repetitive in nature.

We all have time lines for our lessons and any necessary changes that we need to do in our lives. Changes do not come easily but when they come, you see and feel the difference in your life.

Along with the fears I lived in denial, especially when it came to relationships. I chose to ignore what was in front of me and chose to believe that it was going to get better and change. Many times I not only felt it but I also saw it and chose not to believe it. It was "clear as a bell". It's easier to live with what we are comfortable in instead of moving forward and making those changes that are necessary.

For example, I told my partner that I wanted my needs to be met. This issue was discussed many times. I even wrote a list of what my needs were and gave it to him. It was very clear that he was never going to meet my needs and didn't even make an attempt to do so. I finally woke up and came out of denial. I just needed to decide how important it was for my needs to be met and whether I could live with his inability to meet those needs.

What I have learned is that in order to overcome your fears, you must look at what is in front of you, live in the moment and trust your intuition. I stopped living for "what could be" or "what might be" and started living for "what is". This will not be easy but in the long run it will set you free and allow you to move forward on your path.

By facing your fears you start living in the now and move out of denial. You will not move forward to the next part of your life path and see or feel any differences until you make those necessary changes. Moving out of fears and denial is possible and it will lighten your soul and move you to the next part of you life path.

About the Author:

Esmeralda has been studying the Spirit World for over 10 years. She is an accomplished and gifted Psychic. She enjoys helping others move forward on their life paths by sharing what she has learned on her own path. Esmeralda was born in Portugal and experienced 3 significant events early in life that started her on her spiritual path. At age 3, she almost walked off a cliff while sleep-walking - Spirit guided her to a neighbour. At age 4, she choked on a fish bone and went out-of-body and watched her loved ones revive her. At age 5, she was tossed into a huge bonfire while playing a child's game at the town's harvest celebration. To the amazement of those who pulled her from the fire, she came out without a burn or scratch. Esmeralda has a deep and abiding trust in God and those loving Angels, Spirit Guides and Teachers that help her on her path.