Need Help Making a Decision?

by Wendy Kay

Are you having difficulty making a decision? If you are, here are a couple of methods that were given to me by my Spirit Guides that might make your task a little easier.

One of the reasons we have difficulty making a decision is because we often do what other people want us to do and not what WE truly want to do.

When making a decision, try to take out all the factors that influence your decision and then you should see more clearly what you want to do.

This means that you need to sit down when no one is going to bother you and pretend that whatever decision you have to make will be perfectly okay with everyone else in the world.

For example, if you were trying to decide whether to separate in a marriage, imagine that if you left, the kids would be thrilled. Relatives would applaud. Friends would support and encourage you. There would be enough money. Fear would be non-existent because everything would turn out great. No one would say anything negative to you - it would only be words suggesting that the decision you made was the right one. Get yourself to the point where you feel that and then ask yourself - "if everyone was okay with my decision, what would I do?" This should give you a clearer answer.

I used to have a lot of difficulty making decisions for myself and then my Spirit Guide gave me the above exercise. It made the decision-making process a lot easier. I got to the heart of what I truly wanted instead of letting myself be guided by guilt or fear. I started taking responsibility for my own actions and did not allow myself to guided by all these people "who thought they knew what was best for me". I discovered that I knew what was best for me.

Another decision making exercise is to ask a Higher Power Filled With Light and Love to show you the outcome of making the decision. Here's how it is done.

1. Relax and close your eyes.
2. Ask your Higher Power Filled with Light and Love to show you what will happen if you choose one decision.
3. Now, look for a picture in your mind. It will appear as a type of daydream or fantasy.
4. What does the picture tell you? Does it look like a positive outcome or a negative outcome?
5. Remember, you will normally be shown the "end result" and not the path you will have to take to get there. This means that the decision you make could present all types of challenges or learning experiences and it may take a year to get to the "end result" - but you would eventually get there.
6. Repeat steps 2 to 4 for each possible outcome of your decision.